Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)
As many as one-tenth of any child population is thought to have ODD, and the chances of a boy having it are almost two times higher than those of a girl. Generally ODD is seen in children under the age of 10. Though little research has been conducted on the causes of ODD, it is usually diagnosed after at least six months of uncooperative, defiant and hostile behaviours that don’t actually go as far as breaking any major social norms. The behaviours often include:
- Having temper tantrums.
- Arguing, especially with adults.
- Defying the requests or orders of adults.
- Deliberately attempting to irritate others.
- Being easily irritated by others.
- Acting angry or resentful in general.
- Blaming others for one’s own mistakes.

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CD can be divided into two categories: child onset (exhibited in a child under the age of 10) and adolescent onset (not exhibited in the child prior to the age of 10). CD is characterised by a repetitive pattern of behaviours that violate the rights of others and necessarily the social norms that guard these rights. For a formal diagnosis, three behaviours must be exhibited in the year prior with at least one in the last six months. These behaviours include:
- Acting aggressively towards people or animals, including theft, assault and sexual assault.
- Destroying property, including by arson.
- Deceiving or stealing from others, including shop lifting and breaking into houses and cars.
- Breaking parental rules, including breaking curfews, playing truant from school and running away from home.
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Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
ADHD is arguably the most common child onset behavioural disorder in the UK. An estimated 5% to 10% of children in the UK are affected by ADHD, and while symptoms may manifest as early as 18 months of age many children are not formally diagnosed until years later – if at all. Children affected by ADHD may exhibit symptoms such as:
- Poor concentration, including an inability to finish tasks or wait for others to finish speaking.
- Hyperactivity, including an inability to remain seated for long or play quietly.
- Learning difficulties, including an inability to follow instructions or work through complex or complication problems.
- Engaging in dangerous behaviours without thinking through the consequences.
He can speak mum, dad, sister . He understand our behavior , order etc. Food habit is good. Likes music more.
Please let us know why there is delay in speaking. His elder sister , seven years old , did not have such problem. She is doing very well in education.
Thank you.
He is a loveable child, but he can be very rude ,swears can be aggresive,
his sister is lovely but very spolt & very really gets told off by her father.
The father appears to ignore, him and always ask the girl how she is getting on;
They just appear to shout, or slap him very hard
We look after him 1 day a week while his mother is at work.
We love him dearly,He seems very angry , with the world.
also when he gets told off at home he phones us , I just talk to him, & don't interefere.
I'm really worried any suggestion.
Thank you.
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